“I cannot even pick up another child in my
arms, I had a new grandchild, he is six months old, but I have yet to take him
in my arms, I feel that place belongs to Fares”

 

Talat
and Intissar Hamouda


In the early morning of 11 January 2009, the home of Intissar
Hamouda, 41, in
Tal Al-Hawa. Gaza City, came under attack from Israeli forces. Israeli tank
fire resulted in the death of her son, Fares Hamouda, who was two years old at
the time of the attack, and her step son Muhammed who she cared for with her
husband Talat, 54, Muhammed’s father. Fares died immediately in Intissar’s
arms, while Muhammed bled to death as medical crews were unable to reach
them.  


“Muhammed and Fares had a lot in common. After I had Fares I could
not breastfeed so we had to give him manufactured milk. Muhammed lost his
mother at ten months and so was also fed manufactured baby milk. As a result,
both had similar illnesses with similar symptoms,” says Intissar. Throughout
their brief time together the brothers remained close. “Fares would refuse to
go to sleep until Muhammed came home from school. On the day of the attack
Fares was sick, but he refused to take medicine from me, he wanted it from
Muhammed,” says Intissar.


Following the attack Intissar was severely debilitated. “I could
not walk on my legs even six months after the incident due to injuries in my
legs and pelvis; I needed help from my step daughters and sisters to move
around the house.” Intissar has since undergone three surgeries to remove
shrapnel from her abdomen as well as reconstructive plastic surgery. 


Fares was not only close to his half brother Muhammed, but also to
Intissar’s step daughter Kariman and step grandchild Rania, who were 13 and 2
respectively at the time of the incident. Both have been traumatised as a
result. “Kariman became extremely aggressive in school and at the advice of
teachers Talat decided to withdraw her from it,” says Imtissar. “Three months
following the incident I came back to the house with Rania to get her toys and
other things, but she begged me not to enter the house and wouldn’t take
anything from it.” Similarly, Intissar said that “ten days ago we were in the
Old City shopping and Rania saw a funeral of someone killed in a recent Israeli
attack, it reminded Rania of Fares and Muhammed and she started to cry, when I
explained they had gone to heaven, she replied, “just like Muhammed and Fares”.”


Intissar and Talat have both been emotionally affected by the loss
of their sons. “I cannot even pick up another child in my arms, I had a new
grandchild, he is six months old, but I have yet to take him in my arms, I feel
that place belongs to Fares,” says Talat. The anniversary is particularly hard
on Intissar, who still suffers chronic pain from nerve damage as a result of
the attack. “As the day approaches they show interviews taken of me after the
incident or start to talk about the attack,” says Intissar, “I can’t even watch
stories of other women with similar experiences, so I don’t turn on the television.”


As regards the future the couple feel they have nothing left to be
taken from them. “We lost the nearest things to us, we have nothing else left
to lose,” says Intissar. “I am no longer even afraid of the bombings.” However
Intissar clings to some hope that she can have another child following the
death of Fares, who she tried to conceive for 21 years. “I have tried through
artificial insemination already, but it didn’t work. I’m hoping to try again.”
Similarly Talat has hopes that there will be political reconciliation among the
Palestinian political factions. Regarding the prospects of their complaint in
Israeli courts, Intissar is unimpressed; “the Israeli’s committed war crimes
against us, they destroy the houses over the heads of civilians, I expect no
justice from them.”  


PCHR submitted a criminal complaint to the Israeli authorities on behalf
of the Hamouda Family on 21 July 2009. To-date, no response has been received.
              



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The Narratives:

 

– 10
January 2009: Wafa al-Radea

9 January 2009 – The Abu Oda Family

 8 January
2009: The Al-Rahel family

 7 January 2009 – The Mattar Family

– 6 January 2009: Al-Dayah
family

-5 January 2009: Amal al-Samouni

– 4 January 2009: The Abdel
Dayem Family

3 January
2009: Motee’ and Isma’il as-Selawy

– 2 January 2009: Eyad al-Astal

– 1 January 2009: The Nasla Family

 31 December 2008: The Abu
Areeda family

– 30 December 2008: The Hamdan
Family

29 December 2008: Balousha Family

 28 December 2008: The Abu Taima
family

– 27 December 2008: The Al Ashi Family.